what it feels like for a girl

just finished watching Glee.

hmm...
tasha sangat pelik kenapa tasha tak de keyakinan diri dan selalu negative thinking.

i really admire the Glee cast. they really confident with themselves. lagi pun, topic malam ni sal genderism. cam menarik. betulla, perempuan sentiasa takutkan objection dari lelaki, takut mengecewakan lelaki, so they go for it eventhough they dont want it... tu la yang diceritakan lam Glee malam ni. pendek kata, perempuan sentiasa kene jaga hati pasangan... hmm..

kenapa jadi camtu?
sebab perempuan tak rasa pilihan di tangan mereka. mungkinkah sebab tiada confident? jom kite share satu lagu dari madonna (tasha dengar pon dalam Glee tadi nihs..hik3x)

what it feels like for a girl by madonna

Girls can wear jeans
And cut their hair short
Wear shirts and boots
Cause it's okay to be a boy

But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading
Cause you think being a girl is degrading
But secretly
You'd love to know what it's like
Wouldn't you?
What it feels like for a girl

Silky smooth
Lips as sweet as candy, baby
Tight blue jeans
Skin that shows in patches

Strong inside but you don't know it
Good little girls they never show it
When you open up your mouth to speak
Could you be a little weak

Do you know what it feels like for a girl
Do you know what it feels like in this world for a girl

Hair that twirls on finger tips so gently, baby
Hands that rest on jutting hips repenting
Hurt that's not supposed to show and
Tears that fall when no one knows
When you're trying hard to be your best
Could you be a little less

Do you know what it feels like for a girl
Do you know what it feels like in this world for a girl
Do you know what it feels like for a girl
Do you know what it feels like in this world
What it feels like for a girl

Strong inside but you don't know it
Good little girls they never show it
When you open up your mouth to speak
Could you be a little weak

Do you know what it feels like for a girl
Do you know what it feels like in this world for a girl
Do you know what it feels like for a girl
Do you know what it feels like in this world for a girl

In this world
Do you know
Do you know
Do you know what it feels like for a girl
What it feels like in this world

if you dont want it, dont do it.

sigh3x....

girls,
you have the right to say 'no' or to say 'yes'.
jangan terlalu fikirkan others sampai abaikan diri sendiri. jangan zalim kepada diri sendiri, but yet, dont be selfish..

girls,
you cannot fulfill everyone's expectations.
you are yourself. if you cant make it, then just do your best. semua orang tak sama. jika dia boleh buat, tak semestinya anda juga boleh buat. sebab tahap masing2 berbeza. tapi jangan lah berhenti berusaha. tetaplah yakin. yang penting, buat semampunya.

girls,
please respect yourself.
jangan rasa anda sangat baik jika biarkan others pijak kepala anda. you deserve to be treated well, because we are the same... a normal human being.

girls,
be what you want to be.
memang nasihat from others penting tapi tak semuanya boleh diterima. jika anda selesa dengan diri anda, teruskan. tapi jika ada kelemahan dalam diri anda, berilah ruang untuk mengubahnya. setiap orang berhak buat salah dan belajar darinya.

girls,
be positive, be confident.
tak perlu secantik miss world untuk confident, tak perlu seterrer pemegang nobel tuk jadi positive. anda ada keistimewaan anda. percaya pada diri anda.

ini adalah pesanan tuk diri tasha.. i really admire adibah noor because she is sooo confident and positive. i want to be like her (eventhough i didnt get to know her personally.... tp tasha tetap rasa dia besh.)

positive + confident