Showing posts with label hubbywifey. Show all posts
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Oct 20, 2013

rindunye nk blog



rindunye nak menulis
tp tulah, jd SAHM ni bukan mudah nk blogging, duk melayan si bunge je...
skrg bunge tgh tdo. dh lama tdo. japgi bangun la tu. tp bunge ni heavy wetter la. kalau tdo lama sket misti leaking. so skrg i dah buat schedule baru. lepas subuh je i akan tukar cd dia n pakai huggies. kalau tak, pagi pagi misti leaking. ponat la nk cuci cadar everyday..

hubs is not around. outstation kat langkawi for four days. so, leh la cuti masak. hehe. tp befor pegi, i dah listkan barang barang i nak dari langkawi. of course la coklat... lots of coklat. not to forget, roti gardenia 70sen tu n beberapa barang dapur cam tea set n mangkuk nasi tambah ke.... tgk la. hehe. yg penting coklatssss. tak sabar nk tggu hubby balik. yeah...

tp before pegi, hubs dh beriya iya drill sana sini, bg memastikan keselamtan kami. bayangkan, tingkap didrillnye tambah engsel, pintu lg... takut sgt ada org pecah masuk. siap pesan before tdo, tutup gas. hahaha. i dah gelak. relax la babah, 4hari je kot. mlm before tdo, he will call tanya dh kunci pintu, dh lock semua tingkap bla bla... over jugak my hubby ni tp tu yg buat i rasa disayangi tu... ngee..

so, bila hubs xde, i boleh la bangun lambat, tak masak n makan fast foods. haha. yelah... hubby not a fan of outside food especially fast food. so selalu kena masak. dia xde je, i terus bawak bunge kuar g kfc. bunga was having a blast moment at the kfc playground. menjerit jerit bunga maen kat ctu. happy sgt dia. ikut hati nk gi jauh lagi smp mall 1borneo tp takut bunga plak melalak dlm carseat. so kite gi dekat dekat dlu ea... bunga xselalu duk dlm carseat.. tu yang dia x biasa sgt ngn carseat tu. kejap kejap boleh la.
ni pun hubs br pas called, checking! he. ok lah, bunga dh bangun tdo. later...

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Sep 13, 2013

merajuk

alkisah merajuk saya semalam...

hehe

so since smp petang x abes lg merajuk, semlm hubs ajak eat out. yeay. hubs cakap xyah masak laa, kita makan kat luar malam ni (tersengih).

so, semlm, i gunakan kuasa veto i untuk memilih tempat makan n yup, i choose fast food. even hubs xsuka nk wat camne, i yg ngajuk kan. so i cakap nk mkn KFC. so kitorg gi mall, 1Borneo. i order mkanan. pas makan i cakap ngan hubs nk jalan jalan. n hubby suggest kiorg gi kedai buku, which is my fave. upon entering the store, i dah cakap to myself, i wont buy anything. but hard to resist la. everuthing sooo tempting!

so pas buat pemilihan dengan penuh teliti, i bought this!
power moms

khas untuk diriku supaya lebih inspired tuk jadi stay at home mom.

n after that, kitorg pulang dengan gembiranya n everything back to usual. x merajuk dah. sukanyaaaa!

Jun 24, 2012

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typing using tab  sgt la xmengujakan.hehe.so makin lmbt la nk type n typo is a must!
am in my 31weeks nw. the little bun always kicking n sometimes senak gk paaaaaaerut bila dia tendang rusuk.tp all those kickigs sunnguh membahagiakn.

last week sgt menstresskn.being diagnosed as diabetes patient, i m totally lost. terpaksa amik darah smp four times daily n kne pantang mkn lg buat i stress. trs dr kencing manis i jd hipo sbb terlebih pantang. terketar2 tahan lapar. trs rs takut cmne nk puasa nnt... hu

bila stress, cm biasa, i akn abeskn byk masa dlm bilik on my bed. pastu pantang dgr sore hubby kt phone, misti laju je air mata air mengalir. mmg rindu tahap maksima la kt hubby! tak tahan! rindu sgt kat hubby. rase cm nk fly ke sabah je. baby pun misti rindukan babahnya... huhu.

bila rindu mulalah tengok pic2 bersama hubby. owh sungguh membahagiakn. thx Allah for all those happiness. n alhamdulillah, kami dah 1taun ++ kawen! syukur dikurniakn seorang suami yg sgt best, matang, caring n best la! i am so proud of u abg!

 hee. yg pasti, i miss u sooooooooooooooo much :'(


Dec 5, 2011

semi-anniversary

sekarang sudah start musim hujan... sejuk je. tengok news sana sini dah banjir. alhamdulillah sabah masih lagi ok, just sejuk je. hujan n mendung.... td sempat gurau2 ngan hubby nak gi keje, 'sejuknya.. it's snowing out there... hehe'.

erm, alhamdulillah, harini genap 6 bulan usia perkahwinanan kami. what can i say is,i am extremely happy. gurau2 ngan hubby, sharing everything.. priceless. sampai sekarang masih tak puas tengok rupa hubby tido, hubby makan, hubby buat muka funny dia... everything... hopefully takkan jemu la. bukankah pandang muka pasangan tu ibadah?

sempena bulan muharram ni, sunatlah puasa. so harini ni kami berpuasa... tapi saya puasa ganti la... hik3. lunch time tadi hubby dah tanya nk masak apa for berbuka.. hmm... since today kami puasa and today jugak semi-anniversary kami, i'm thinking of cooking something a bit special. but of course due to limited barang dapur and expert-ism, tak banyak i boleh plan.

for dessert, pas tengok barang2 yang ada kat dapur, saya rasa saya nk buat tiramisu. a simple tiramisu la. maklum r leftover cream cheese n whipped cream pas buat Red Velvet Cake ritu masih ada lam peti. kalau simpan lama2 bimbang rosak lak. tp untuk main course taktau lagi nak buat apa. sangat teringin nak makan western food tp takut x suit hubby's punya tummy yang sedang puasa tu. maklum la, nasi.... must be in the menu.

semalam tengok master chef malaysia, dorang buat mexican dish guan tortilla wrap tu. hubby requested mende tu. nampak menarik. tp xberani la nk wat tuk berbuka. takut hubby tak puas makan lak.

so, still surfing the internet... taktau nak masak apa!!!!

owh, berbalik pada semi-anniversary ni.. what can i say adalah.. perkahwinan sungguh menggembirakan. i m more tenang sekarang... matang dan gembira. just satu je kebimbangan saya so far dalam hidup ini- my studies. tp alhamdulillah, so far saya boleh kawal kebimbangan ni setakat mampu. tak macam dulu. sekarang, semangat nak belajar tu still ada, n membuak2. muga Allah mudahkan jalan saya ni. n untuk kami?

n of course hubby dah macam pregnant 4 bulan.. ke 6 bulan eh sebab dah 6 bulan kawen? hehe, buncit yet sexy. hari2 hubby cakap nk diet tp makan makin bertambah adalah. senang hati saya sbb saya yg masak.. hehe. saya pun xkurang hebatnya.. makin membulat... tidakkk. baby? i love baby tp masa belum mengizinkan. one step at a time. tp kalau ade suprise dari Allah, kami sangat bersyukur...

happy semi-anniversary for us. esok ada kawan hubby nk belanja steamboat kat restoran nelayan.. baru aje last week pegi sini. tp mmg best la. ni kami share sedikit pics kat restoran nelayan... weee~

hubby sudah bersedia nak menjamu selera
di restoran nelayan... ade persembahan kebudayaan sabah kat belakang. suruh hubby join, hubby segan la plak... kalau x leh bergambar ngan dorang yg sexy tu..
sepasang pasangan yg makin 'berkembang' sedang bergurau-gurauan di restoran nelayan...
semoga Allah berkati perkahwinan kami ini.. amin

Nov 23, 2011

outing tower heist!

semalam kuar dating ngan hubby...

sebab weekend lepas kitorang tak gi mana2 pun. jus gi pasar n supermarket, beli barang dapur stok seminggu. pastu hubby bawak gi jetty pulau jap tengok scenary. then balik. so, rasa cam tak cukup poya2 la kan.. heheh.

so, masa lunch semalam hubby cakap dia terasa nk tengok wayang. so gembira la daku. after isyak, since isyak kat cni around 7pm... kami pun gerak ke mall 1borneo. ntah kenapa saya super excited kali ni nak kuar. saya pun siap awal2 lagi. siap make up n pakai shawl tu. fyi, kalau saya pakai shawl tu, maksudnya saya dress up gile2 la tu.. heee. make up pon kemain lagi. tp hubby cakap cantik. dia suka. dia cakap boleh la lenkali nk kuar make up ag. hehe...

kitorang tengok Tower Heist. kelakar... actually citer ni dah lama giler kot, tp kitorang baru nak tengok. kelakar la. ade time tu saya tergelak sorang2 kat lam panggung time orang lain senyap. isk, part tu kelakar la. nape dorg x gelak? tp saya gelak sopan la, xde malu sangt. lg malu ade gurl tu gelak kuat giler time org lain x gelak.. hee, maluu la ai. nasib gelap, xtau sape gelak. abes la popcorn n coke lam panggung tu dengan cerianya...

pas balik... rasa lenguh2 plak badan. saya rasa dose ubat yg Dr bagi saya ni x accurate la. sbb saya mudah sakit2 badan n stress lately. tp saya positive. maybe tu temporary side effect kot. bak kata Dr, tawakkaltu 'alallah... insyaAllah sembuh.

tp hari ni rasa xbes balik... teringin nak buat kek karamel pelangi tapi xde cream of tartar. nak replace ngan vineger takut x jadi... emm, nak buat kek... terasa nak gi massage.... terasa nak jalan2... terasa nak... nak je tau!

Nov 21, 2011

kisah my wedding

cuti sekolah!

when it comes to cuti sekolah, lotsa wedding invitations are waiting. kat facebook pun banyak gambar kawen2. ahhh bahagianya... sangat bahagia. dulu before kahwin, semua gambar kahwin orang saya nak tengok. sekarang dah kawen, saya jadi anti dengan gambar kahwin orang. bukan semua gambar kahwin, gambar kahwin orang yang pakai baju putih je. kenapa?

kerana....

saya frust!!!
memang impian perkahwinan saya ialah busana bersanding kaler putih. memang persalinan putih tu antara wishlist utama la. tapi it turns out disaster. saya sangat sakit hati dengan butik tu. ya Allah. this is the main reason y saya tak post2 sal kahwin saya kat cini... sebab everytime saya teringatkan insiden tu, setiap kali tu la saya sakit hati. dah banyak kali cuba tenangkan hati tp maybe dah sifat saya, susah melupakan. sbb tu cam xle nk ingat kejadian tu. mesti rasa sangat sakit hati dengan butik tu.

kejadiannya begini,
saya dah fitting baju putih tu lebih kurang 2 bulan before majlis. hubby (masa tu fiance laa) sanggup balik ke semenanjung dari sabah semata2 nak fitting baju putih tu dekat butik ni. everything went well. but the night, yes the night before the majlis butik tu call tanya saya tempah baju apa. hangin!!!! saya cakap la baju putih tu and dia cakap baju tu kat rumah client!!! Tuhan saja yg tahu macam mana perasaan saya. saya dah tempah baju tu berkurun lamanya n dia boleh bagi klien lain. mmg before this saya dah banyak kali tanya mana baju saya, dia cakap nnt dia hantar. hingga lah malam sebelum majlis baru nk gtau hal sebenar??? memang inilah melayu, nk amik untung sangat. n malam tu jugak dalam kul 11pm dia datang bawak segala baju yg ade kat butik dia ke rumah saya suruh try-maklum la nak pakai esok.

dah la theme kaler tak masuk, saiz of course la merebeh2 sebab besar. ade ke patut dia cakap awk pin je situ sini, cantik la tu.. dengan tudung xde, inner xde... etc. apalagi, meraung2 la saya malam tu. mana taknya, esok majlis malam ni baru cakap baju xde. malam tu saya tido jam 3am dengan mata bengkak, esok bangun kul 5am untuk bersedia untuk majlis. lagi haru khemah n pelamin tak siap! memang butik tu blacklist forever!!!!!!!! saya dah deal dengan butik tu for about 6-8 months before. boleh cakap evry months saya akan follow up dengan butik tu ttg majlis saya. maklum la time majlis tu waktu cuti sekolah. semua orang nk kawen, sebab tu saya buat persiapan awal. dek kerana ketamakan n sikap tak bertanggungjawab butik tu, majlis saya turns out begitu...

Ya Allah. masa tu hanya Tuhan yang tahu. lepas sedara mara menasihat, pakcik saya call butik tu n marah2, mak long zan datang tenangkan saya n baca ayat2 suci malam tu, mak cik zie tolong macam2 n sedara-mara bertungkus lumus tolong majlis saya, alhamdulillah.. semuanya lancar. dan, sangat bernasib baik saya ada sewa satu baju untuk outdoor dari butik lain beberapa hari before majlis. baju tu lah jadi baju kawen saya!

persandingan saya
outdoor photoshoot session-baju sama...
and ni saya di hari itu. thx cik zie berjaya naikkan seri pengantin. xnampak sangat la muka penat n mata ku yg bengkak
jadi, itulah story wedding saya. sbb tu saya anti tengok baju perkahwinan putih sebab ianya sangat cantik n idaman saya. saya masih xle terima apa yg berlaku walau dalam hati memaafkan dia. apa2 pun readers out there, pilih la butik dengan tepat. service yg penting ok.

tp, despite all this, alhamdulillah. saya tetap cantik di hari perkahwinan saya (nak perasan jugak!!!). nampak semuanya perfect walaupon tak semua seperti plan. n yang paling penting, even aftar 5 months of marriage, kami sangat bahagia. alhamdulillah ala kulli hal...

terima kasih ya Allah....

p/s: saya dah gtau hubby, anniversary 1st kami nnt saya tetap nk pakai baju putih, nk sewa photographer n amik gambar outdoor. provided masa tu saya langsing n menawan ag la. kalau tetiba termengandung? hehe, itu pon rezeki... alhamdulillah...

Oct 18, 2011

#6: Real Steel

alhamdulillah...

finally hubby finished his final exam in Master of engineering last sunday. let's pray that he will pass all the papers with flying colors. just one more step to go that is presenting his master thesis and insyaAllah he can graduate =)

celebrating the end of the hard works (sometimes he only slept 3 hours at night to study), we went out that sunday evening. hehe, it's actually more on celebrating my patience for being so understanding towards his exams week. hehe. well, it's not easy ok. you have to give your full support as well as sacrifiying too. but i'm not complaining. i just happy to be a supportive wife. =D

so, after asar, he brought me to Karamunsing mall. i had never been there before. it's an old mall with many shops. however, my shopping spree was a bit disrupted since the shops closed very early, at 5pm! not all the shop but many of them. however i still managed to get a mixer for baking, lip balm and cardigan. yeay.

after maghrib and dinner, we went to movie, watched Real Steel. i love it. erm, i always love inspiring movie. i was so energetic during the movie. even my hubby think i'm weird. haha. i even shade my tears during the last part of the movie. hehe. so drama queen.. after the movie, hubby asked me why i was soooo excited during the movie and i replied... because we can still succeed although we are different! and of course i'm applying what i watched into my life now. insyaAllah, everything isn't possible!

Real Steel
so, for me watching Real Steel is not a waste. plus, the boy is also cute. wish to have a son like him..hik3. it's awesome!

cute, isn't he?

Oct 1, 2011

#1: outing

#1: the starts of improving my english

hye there!

Whenever my entries' title starting with #, it is an english entry that is written to improve my english. but of course i didn't write about the language in the entry, it is my normal ranting entry just that, i numbered it with # so that i can see the improvement in my english writing, from my #1 entry till my next next #... so readers, you are most welcome to correct my writing, leave some comments or show your support. will appreciate it so much! hugs~

this is not an entry about my wedding. this is just a hubby-wifey outing story. hehe. sorry. i need my mood to write about my big day.


yesterday, my hubby and i had a very good time together. we went to 1Borneo, KK to watch movie and having dinner. as i really wanted to eat pizza, we headed to pizza hut. at first, there were no vacant as pizza hut was fully occupied. so, we had to wandering around and after discussing about other options for dinner, we saw  vacant seats at pizza hut. so, we had chunky loaded pizza for dinner. hubby love it but i prefer the traditional one. the chunky loaded crust was so thin. i prefer the thick one. hehe


after that, we went for a movie. as our tickets was at 920pm, so, we chilled ourselves around 1B mall. although hubby was a bit tired, but he still accompanying me around. thanks hubby. still i couldn't find sport shoes that i like. i have to get a pair of sport shoe or else, i wont get motivation to exercise.. hehe, excuses~



for movie, we watched Killer Elite. very awesome. i love it. lots of actions and this is based on a true story. so of course non-logic action wasn't overly did in it. and not so much exploitation on women in that story. mostly about action. i was satisfied. so do hubby. so, a very reccomended movie to be watched!


we arrived at home around 1130pm. and although its already late, hubby still requested for nescafe tarik. hehe. he said, his night wasn't complete without nescafe tarik.

what a beautiful day~





Sep 26, 2011

belajar untuk redha

what a day...
since i lived in kk, hanya 1x kot saya drive. yang laen semua hubby drive. its good to have driver right? lagi best sebab nak jenjalan pun ade somebody temankan. jadi, nak jalan2 pun kena tunggu masing2 free la.

nak dijadikan cerita, weekend ni agak busy. start friday night ada jamuan raya, saturday and sunday hubby ada class master, saturday night hubby ade discussion and last night, sunday night, students hubby datang beraya ke rumah. ternampak pulak jiran sebelah membimbit big apple semalam... terus terasa.. ahh, lamanya tak keluar shopping. susu pekat, gula dan bawang dah hampir habis. hehe.

janji hubby, malam ni nak keluar. nak makan kat luar, tengok wayang n shopping. lagipun lauk lunch tadi dah habis. sekali dengan nasi. biasanya masakan lunch sempat untuk dinner tp td sekali makan je. berselera benar hubby. saya pon lagi excited kalau hubby makan banyak. puas hati isteri. hehe. boleh la makan kat luar malam ni. saya pun dah berangan nk beli kasut sukan. ye lah, badan dah makin naik ni.. bimbang la. dah berangan nk makan western... dah berangan nak jalan2 kat Mall... so, excitednya terlebih!

lepas maghrib, dalam 7.10pm kami gerak.. saya dah tersengih2... ntah kenapa gembira sangat. maybe sebab penat kot minggu ni. banyak aktiviti saya buat. buat open house kecilan, masak untuk open office hubby dan study of course. so, i need a break.

baru je keluar pintu pagar poli, tetiba temperature kereta hubby naik. terus berhenti tepi jalan. owh, entah kenapa. saya memang sentiasa mengalami masalah kereta rosak. memang muka saya la kalau tersadai tepi jalan sebab kereta rosak tu.. dah takdir. lepas temperature agak2 dah turun, kami masuk balik pagar poli, nak balik rumah. dalam hati, sib baik kereta rosak dekat2 je ngan rumah. boleh balik lagi. tp kekecewaan hati tu.. huhu.

sampai rumah, terus bukak peti. fikir nak masak ape yang pantas. ayam, ikan beku lagi... last2 masak speghetti je untuk dinner. rendam daging dalam air supaya cepat lembik. makan tp xsemangat. rancangan fave kat tv pun, the amazing race tak tengok sbb sedih... nak kuar, nak jenjalan.. huhu.

sib baik hubby pandai pujuk. redha3x... hopefully kereta hubby cepat elok. hopefully cost baiki kereta tak tinggi. huhu... redha tasha. belajar untuk redha...

Sep 23, 2011

my current favourite spot

this is my current favourite spot in the house!

Tadaa~
hehe, as last weekend, hubby supposely to attend a kursus at kuching, we didnt plan any plan on that weekend. unfortunately, hubby didnt go to kuching due to unavailability of flight tickets. so, we got an unplanned long weekend (3days plus cuti hari Malaysia). at first, we tought to go to lahad datu, visiting abah. but the flight ticket was extremely mahal... so we decided to rearrange the house.

so lets me put in my new favourite spot in the house... the kenang2-kenangan section. hehe. actually, whenever i watched english movie... i always told hubby to have the section that put all the frames and selected pictures in house. the western people always put their family or their love ones pictures at their living room. so, i like the idea.
our wedding picture
wedding album by fazrien
digital frame... lots of memorable pictures in it!
so we created the space. we hang our wedding picture on the wall. the picture was given by long-as wedding gift. i think its expensive because it was printed by oild sumthing. didnt get what is it but something that made it long lasting. on the table, we had our wedding album by our OP, fazrien (klik la tuk tgk pic kawen kami..hehe).. our picture, draw by a cartoonists, and digital frame, given by ngosh for our wedding. and we also have few frames.

the frame table
so, for he time being.. this is the best spot in the house!

Sep 21, 2011

the cook

being a wife, now i truly found my new hobby- cooking!

having a love-to-eat hubby, i am blessed because he always eat what i cooked. it motivates me to cook more and trying many new recipes mostly every week. furthermore, our neighbour is a cook to. we always change foods and sometimes i went to her house to learn how to cook. she is really a good cook. besides that, my hubby's office also stimulates my new passions because they always organising 'makan-makan' ceremony that is by pot-luck. so, everybody has to bring their own dishes.

today is hari raya celebration at the office. and they requested me to cook kuah lodeh. at first, i was a bit panicked. of course, because i never cook kuah lodeh aka lontong before and, kuah lodeh is not a hari raya dishes in my place, terengganu. but of course i knew kuah lodeh because my mom used to cook it during hari raya last few years. so, i read the recipes and started to cook.

alhamdulilllah, it turned out well. according to hubby, it delicous and his officemates likes it. my 1st try is not bad. and... this also triggers me to cook more.

everyday, i will browse through myresepi.com to read many recipes. i addicted to cooking i guess. and i will make sure there is something in the fridge for my hubby, in case he asked to eat something. for now, in the fridge i have my own chocolate cake kukus (i have to kukus it because we didnt have oven yet) and kuih seri muka (also done by kukus..hehe). my next project will be puding raja and fruit cocktail. cant wait to do it!.

i also cook for breakfast, lunch, tea time and dinner... at night, i will serve some dessert to hubby as his late night supper. i cannot believe i've done this because i never see myself as a cook before. and it gives me satisfaction when i see my hubby buncit. hahaha. i always usik him with his stomach. so sexy.. hahaha. and he will start worry and claimed that he was once a tough guy with six pack body..naahhh.

don't you know that cooking is also helping people to manage stress? i think this is the right theraphy for me for this moment. besides helping me with my illness, i am satisfied and more happy when i can cook whatever i want and i have somebody to eat what i cook. so, stress- free. hehe.

mom also said, if i continue to be like this, insyaAllah i can be a good cook one day. mom also impressed with my choc cake kukus. i also give her my recipe and she loves that. my hubby, our neighbour and my hubby's office-mates also love it. so that, i love to do it banyak2 and keep it in fridge. Alhamdulillah the cake is still moist although i keep it in fridge for more than a week. the best thing is, it get moister and yummier.

so new wife or wife-to-be out there, dont afraid to cook. if u have a supporting hubby, then there shouldnt be a problem for u to cook. besides providing a yummy food, cheaper and stress-relieve theraphy of course, it helps u to show your love to your loves one. thank u hubby and mom for always support me. hopes i will always love cooking =))

our wedding cake.. and i didnt bake it.. hehe

Sep 19, 2011

all the best to me

dah lama tak update blog ni kan?
the truth is, i always browse through my blog, mostly everyday... but i didnt get the courage to update it.
i want to write something about my life because i love blogging. but im afraid. i dont know. there are always so many things that make me think.. n think..keep thinking. huh. why cant i just be ignorant?

well...
now, i am a wife to a lovely husband. my life is so happy right now. even people around me noticed that. of course what, my weight increased 5kg just in 3 months of marriage! hehe. even my dad said my cheek 'dah naik'. and me also, i can see my face as full as the bright moon aka bulan mengambang in the recent raya pictures. haha. thank you to mr hubby for making this wonderful moments. hopes it will last forever. i love u abang.

and..
i am still a PhD student! ok, maybe some of the readers didnt get how a PhD student can be as leisure as i am, doing all the house chores, living with my hubby at KK, travelling here and there... huhu. the truth is, i was diagnosed with an illness that entitled me to a short break.. aka cuti semester. dont worry. i am ok after a few treatment and continuation of medicines. but, i have to be more careful as this type of illness can reoccur. so, no stress and be happy.

after a long break from study, since last May... now i am back to continue my amanah. i must get on my feet again, starts slowly and confidently. i must do all my best and remember not to compare my life to others because one of the keys to a stress relieve life is, do not compare life to others because everyone is different! with the love and continuation of supports from family and hubby, insyaAllah i managed to do this. and dont take everything seriously.. hehe. just keep your limit. dont over do it.

i pray that i will get better, study well and.... all the best to me =)

me and hubby, 1st raya at melaka

Aug 17, 2011

life in KK

alhamdulillah... life's good.

berada di negeri di bawah bayu... banyak yg saya pelajari. seronok jugak.

1. saya baru tahu yg hari2 di sabah disebut hari satu, hari dua hari tiga... instead of isnin, selasa, rabu.. mula2 conpuse gak bila mereka cakap, 'appointment kite buat hari satu ye'.. ingt sabtu.. rupanya isnin.. hehe.

2. berbuka puasa ialah bersungkai. kalau dalam radio dia akan cakap, 'sekarang diumumkan waktu bersungkai bagi negeri sabah...'.

3. saya masih lagi fail untuk bercakap sabah n badly, saya masih lg problemmo nk memahami orang yg bercakap dialek sabah. biasanya saya hanya terpinga2 n si suami la yang mentranslatekan.. hehee..

4. since suami merupakan warden di poli ini, this is my 1st time tinggal satu kolej dengan pelajar lelaki. wp tinggal di rumah warden, sangat selesa! ade 3 bilik n 3 bilik air..fully furnished. blessed enough for us yg newly wed ni. byk nk budget kan. yg bestnye, student lelaki sangat meriah! they sing mostly all the time- xkira tgh mlm ke, pagi ke, tgh hari ke... subuh ke... haha~

5. semlam ade program 'singgah sahur' kat poli kk. dorang berkompang ke setiap blok dan kejutkan sahur, seawal jam 3am. dan lps tu, suasana kolej dah jadi meriah sbb student mula bising n berteriak 'sahur...sahur..'. menarik~

6. saya suka shopping di cni. last time, saya ikut suami ke kedai kristal kenalannya, dan dia hadiahkan saya rantai mutiara air masin sempena perkahwinan kami, which is soooo cantik. tak sabar nk pakai sempena raya nnt. then selepas tu, everytime saya g kedai tu, mesti kak rina (owner kedai tu) bagi saya something cam brooch ke... best. kalau beli makanan tradisional pun, dorang akan bg satu paket percuma, seronoknya..

7. saya dh jadi isteri yang betul2 isteri. i cant believe saya memasak n mencuba pelbagai resepi di sini. i cook not only for hubby, tp menolong sewaktu rakan suami buat kenduri, memasak untuk pusat islam sempena berbuka puasa dan saya juga bertukar2 masakan dengan jiran. waaah, terasa seperti dalam cerita desperate housewives plak. hehe.. seronok bila memasak n ade org makan n the dishes is not bad at all aka yummy. kembang semangkuk bila suami memuji... hehe.. saya juga suka buat kuih cam kek coklat kukus, seri muka, puding koktel, puding karamel, kek gula hangus n mcm2 lagi. alhamdulillah so far hasilnya xmengecewakan. biasanya saya akan skype dengan mak n cari resepi kat internet. i love what im doing right now. kind of a good therapy isnt it?

8. bazar ramadhan di sini menarik. biasanya weekend kami akan ke bazaar sbb weekdays dah masak. haha. saya suka kuih cempiang (masakan tradisional org sabah). kuih2 juga murah, still rm1 untuk 3. tp yg best org kat cni suka makan mee. banyak mee. dan setiap kali anda ke restoran, dorang akan hidangkan anda sup kosong. its free whether u ask for it or not!

9. saya dah nampak gunung kinabalu, saya dah ke kundasang yg sejuk itu, kinabalu park n few places around KK. tp so far saya tak drive lagi kat cni sbb hubby tak benarkan. its good to have somebody to drive for u kan? hehe...

10. uitm kk dekat je dengan rumah. so no hal untuk saya gunakan library uitm kk untuk study saya nnt. saya pon dah ada kawan baru, namanya Indah, seindah orangnya. orang bugis. owh ye, saya pon dah de passport perjalanan terhad ke sabah. so, dah kira bukan taurist dah la.
di kundasang
hmm, itu la update 10 things of KK's life for now. ari ni xperlu masak sbb ade majlis iftar besar2an di pusat Islam poli KK. owh ye, solat sunat tarawikh kat poli kk ini menarik jugak sbb selepas 4 rakaat tarawikh akan diadakan tazkirah. bagus bila berada dlm majlis ilmu ni. pusat islam dengan rumah pon xjauh, 2min jalan lenggang lengguk je kot.. hehe. ok,till then! 

Aug 3, 2011

coretan seorang isteri

sejak bergelar isteri ini, makin suntuk masa untuk berblog. tapi mana mungkin saya tinggalkannya sbb i love blogging so much!

tapi menggalas gelaran isteri bukan sekadar gelaran. banyak yg perlu dijaga. tidak lagi bebas seperti dlu. batasannya agak banyak kerana banyak hati yang perlu dijaga, khususnya hati sang suami.

bercerita tentang hidup sekarang, alhamdulillah. semuanya sangat indah. thank u Allah. ialah, di awal usia perkahwinan, semua akan terasa indah bukan? tp tak mustahil perasaan indah ini dapat dikekalkan hingga ke syurga, bukan? perlukan usaha yang gigih n doa sentiasa.

alhamdulillah,
saya sedang mendalami kehidupan sebagai seorang isteri. cant believe it. i do the cook, kemas rumah, melayan suami, mencuba bermacam2 resepi almost everyday and many more! kami juga sering solat berjemaah, at least sekali sehari, which i love a lot. setiap hari saya akan merenungnya dan berdoa semoga hidup kami diberkati olehNYA, kerana, he is so amazing. dia lah ciri2 seorang suami yang saya idamkan. saya sangat bersyukur dikurniakan jodoh sepertinya. i really love u, abang... semoga Allah berkati pernikahan ini, amin.

tak ingin saya nak bercerita panjang tentang kisah2 cinta ini sbb pasti ramai yang terasa jengkel nanti. haha, lagipun, tak elok dihebah2 kan sangat. cukuplah berkongsi sesuatu sbg update. yang pasti, kepada mereka diluar sana, ingin saya katakan... perkahwinan itu best! haha, tapi, perlulah disertai dengan kasih sayang dan tanggungjawab. sempurnakan haknya, insyaAllah hak anda juga akan terbela...

in love....
ramadhan pertama sebagai isteri agak menyeronokkan. i cook for berbuka n juga sahur. sangat puas hati bila melihat sang suami menjamah air tangan sendiri wp mayb x seenak mana..hehe. yang penting i cook with love.

selamat menyambut ramadhan!

Jul 7, 2011

10 sifat isteri solehah

sebelum ikut hubby ke sabah, saya telah mendapat kad dari family. its a 'congratulation-on-ur-wedding' card! dalam tu terkandung pesanan or wishes dr mak, ayah n adik beradik. pesan mak pendek, 'good luck!'. pesan ayah, 'jadilah isteri solehah'....

isteri solehah dambaan suami. baru sebulan 2 hari menjadi isteri... kadang2 kesabaran ade sedikit terusik. tp xde la gaduh2. teringat pesanan rakan SHAMS yg terlebih dahulu bergelar isteri... dalam rumahtangga, yg penting adalah, 'sabar3x'...

lalu terbaca entri ini... sangat penting untuk didalami dan diamalkan...

10 sifat isteri solehah...

1. berkhidmat dengan rasa puas
2. taat dengan baik kepadanya.
3. Jangan sampai matanya memandang yang buruk daripadamu
4. Jangan sampai dia mencium kecuali yang harum daripadamu.
5. menjaga waktu tidurnya
6. menjaga waktu makannya
7. menjaga hartanya
8. memelihara kehormatan serta keluarganya. Perkara pokok dalam keluarga adalah pengurusan yang baik.
9. jangan membangkang perintahnya. Apabila kamu tidak mentaati perintahnya, bererti kamu melukai hatinya.
10. jangan membuka rahsianya. Apabila kamu membuka rahsianya kamu tidak akan aman daripada pengkhianatannya.

Kemudian janganlah kamu bergembira di hadapannya ketika dia bersedih atau bersedih di hadapannya ketika dia bergembira.
Jadilah kamu orang yang sangat menghormatinya, tentu dia akan sangat memuliakanmu.

Jadilah kamu orang yang selalu sepakat dengannya, tentu dia akan sangat belas kasihan dan sayang kepadamu.

Ketahuilah, sesungguhnya kamu tidak akan dapat apa yang kamu inginkan sehingga kamu mendahulukan keredaannya daripada keredaanmu, dan mendahulukan kesenangannya daripada kesenanganmu, baik dalam hal yang kamu sukai atau yang kamu benci dan Allah akan memberkatimu.”

source: Jendela Hikmah

so, bak kata mak, GOOD LUCK!
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